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Ten Keys to Successful Coping (2001)
Original version of series on how to live well with long-term illness. See also new version from 2005.

Introduction:  The Power of Self-Help
Research has shown self-help to be a powerful tool for managing chronic illness.

1: Combine Acceptance and a Fighting Spirit
The first key is to adopt a combination of two attitudes: acceptance that life has changed with a conviction that it can be made better.

2: Find Your Limits
Living inside the Energy Envelope offers an alternative to the cycle of push and crash.

3: Pace Yourself
Pacing provides a way to gain control of chronic illness rather than being at the mercy of symptoms.

4: Nurture Yourself with Scheduled Rests
Pre-emptive rest is a simple technique that can help reduce symptoms and make life more stable.

5: Learn to Predict the "Unpredictable"
A few minutes a day of record keeping can reveal what worsens symptoms and what helps you feel better.

6: Achieve Your Goals
When goals seem impossibly distant, translate them into a series of small, doable steps.

7: Manage Stress
Learn how to both reduce and prevent stress.

8: Seek Support and Understanding
Five strategies to help you increase support and stay connected.

9: Honor Your Emotions
How to address fear, anger, grief and depression.

10: Find New Meaning
Chronic illness brings grief for the loss of the person we used to be. Use these seven strategies to bring new meaning to your life.

 

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