Ten
Tips for Travel
By Bruce
Campbell
Travel is a little
like the character is Chinese writing that means both opportunity and
danger. While offering a break from everyday life, travel may also be
the occasion of a flare in symptoms. What can you do to tip the balance
in the direction of enjoyment and away from relapse?
We recently asked
people in our self-management groups to describe strategies they have
used to help them travel successfully. Here’s a summary of their
strategies.
1) Extra Rest: Before, During and After
Travel requires more
energy than everyday life, shrinking your available energy. If you
don’t adjust your activity level to match the lesser energy, you risk
a flare up of symptoms. The most common travel strategy used by people
in our groups is to take extra rest: before, during and after a trip.
Store up extra energy by taking extra rest before a trip (twice normal
is often used); limit symptoms during a trip by taking extra rest while
away; and take whatever extra rest is needed after to bring you back to
normal.
A member of one of
our groups gave an example. If she is going on a one-week vacation, she
plans for a two-week period. She makes sure that she doesn’t take on
any extra activities for a few days before and a few days after her
trip. She also makes sure that she paces herself carefully during the
trip, resting during her non-active times. After returning, she
continues to take extra rest. Another person reported a similar
strategy.
2) Plan in Detail
A second strategy is
to plan trips in great detail. Students mentioned using books and the
Internet to decide what they wanted to see, then to set their itinerary
based on how much activity they could do. Planning also involved packing
ahead of time and, for some people, making arrangements to use
wheelchairs or motorized carts in airports. Having
a detailed itinerary set ahead of time can help you to resist the
temptation to do too much when away from home.
One person in our
program described the planning she used for a trip to a theme park. Her
description also illustrates three other tips: the use of rest (#1),
planning with travel companions (#3) and pacing (#5).
I
first made a list of all the "MUST SEE" items and then a list
of optional things we wanted to do, with input from my husband. Using
maps of the facility and information about the various attractions, I
planned the trip in advance so that we could concentrate on one
particular area per day. I planned rest breaks around the active events.
I also was able to schedule the "Must See" items during my
good times of the day and fit the other items in where possible. Our
agreement ahead of time was that we would go back to the room anytime I
felt I needed to. At the end of the trip, we had seen all but 2 items we
wanted to see and do, plus a couple extras we hadn't counted on and I
didn't crash when we got home. With the exception of only a couple of
scheduled events (reservations made) we both knew that we had to be
flexible in case I needed more rest breaks.
3) Talk with Companions about Your Limits
People also report
having more enjoyable trips when they talk to their travel companions
ahead of time about their limits and make a joint plan. Decide what you
can do, then discuss your limits with others and decide on a plan. If
you discuss your limits with others ahead of time, you can reduce the
chances that they will be surprised or disappointed, and the chance they
will pressure you to do more than you can handle.
4) Adjust Your Expectations
For some people,
making mental adjustments is crucial. When trying to do everything they
used to do on a trip led to repeated crashes, they decided to adjust
their expectations to fit their body’s new limits. For example, they
would plan to stay in one place for a while, taking time to recover from
travel before beginning sightseeing. Several mentioned their practice of
keeping their schedules flexible to accommodate unforeseen events or
higher than expected symptoms. One person said he was helped by
replacing resentment of all he can’t do by focusing on what he can
do.
I
have benefited from the idea that half a loaf is better than
nothing...both for me and for others. Even if I haven’t been able to
do everything I did before becoming ill, making compromises has enabled
me to participate at times somewhat outside my envelope so that I
increased my symptoms somewhat but didn’t suffer a bad flare-up.
5) Pace Yourself
Another common
travel strategy is pacing: alternating of periods of activity with times
for rest. To help you decide how to use your time, you can prioritize
the activities you want to do, as mentioned in the example above.
Several students have mentioned taking a rest day between active days or
having a flexible schedule that allowed more rest, if needed.
6) Opt Out of Some Activities
If your travel
companions would like to do more than you, you can agree to do some
things together and let them do other things on their own while you
rest. One person in our program wrote: “I may have to stay at the
hotel and sit in the hot tub while they do some sightseeing, [but] we
can still meet later for dinner.”
7) Use Creature Comforts
Ask what you need to
be comfortable while traveling. One person mentioned that she always
carries a “Fibro Rescue Kit,” a bag that contains her medications,
water for drinking and water to mist on her face, snacks and Therma-Care
heat pads. Another person described her car as having features that make
it easier on her: a tilting steering wheel, easily adjustable seats,
center arm rests and radio controls on the steering wheel. A third said
that for air travel she carries an inflatable neck pillow and a lumbar
support cushion, which she also uses in the car and at her destination.
8) Use Mobility Aids
Some patients use a
motorized cart or wheelchair in airports. One says: “When we fly, I
ask for assistance when we book our flight. There is no charge for this,
you just have to ask.” Other people have scooters that they take with
them on trips, stored in the trunk of their cars or checked as baggage.
9) Remember to Stop and Stretch
Travel can be less
taxing and less painful if it’s interrupted. Several students
mentioned stopping and stretching periodically to keep limber and to
avoid pain. Some stop for a few minutes every half hour, others every
two hours or so.
10) Become an Armchair Traveler or a Day Tripper
If long trips or
plane rides are not possible, you can seek out alternatives to travel.
Two often mentioned by people in our program are becoming an armchair
traveler and taking short trips near home. People have mentioned reading
books and magazine, and watching TV programs on places they are
interested in. One said: “I have found interesting shows on the Travel
channel and even the food channel. They have taken me to Europe and
throughout the US, without the fatigue.”
Note: Travel is one type of special event. Others include the
Holidays, weddings and family get togethers. For a tool you can use to
plan such events, see the discussion of the Special Event Worksheet in
the chapter of our course text on Records
and Worksheets. A printable version of the worksheet is available
through our Logs and Forms
page.)